
Any assertion suggesting that one's job choice is self-defining is commonly met by blushes of timid unease; especially in a town where outsized costs of living require all sorts of aspirational compromises. Though many people relate to those blushy moments few could deny that the choice to spend a majority of one’s waking hours fulfilling a singular work function doesn’t say something, if not a lot, about who they are.
Quick draw answers I've heard to this "what if" dating psychology question fall into a few simple categories. (1) Occupations that describe a particular physical archetype: professional football player, yoga instructor, exotic dancer, or underwear model. (2) Jobs that typify a specific lifestyle or socioeconomic status: investment banker, travel journalist, art gallerist, or bass player for a well known rock band. (3) Careers that exemplify a certain brand of intellect or creativity: architect, philosophy professor, sculptor, or film director. There’s also the separate question of whether you generally seek a “partner in crime,” someone with similar creative/professional inclinations, or a person who you believe is your complimentary contrasting opposite.
My own answers combine ideas mentioned above with two addendums which I'll briefly describe. The first is what I call "Reincarnate Regret." It's the idea of being drawn towards people who chose a path you pursued in a former life, once considered, or still now consider. My other choosing variable is a hybrid of the response categories listed above. Based on silly generalizations (this is a somewhat silly exercise after all) I start with the world view, aesthetic sensibility, and physical appearance desired in a mate then interpolate to careers where one might find a high density of these idealized characters.
My top female blind dates knowing only their occupation:
1. Comic Book Illustrator
2. Hatter / Milliner
3. Contemporary Dancer
4. Furniture Maker
5. Field Anthropologist
{Extra credit list}
If I had lived during the 1920s:
1. Switchboard Operator
2. Hatter / Milliner
3. Confectioner
4. Costermonger
5. Bluestocking
If you'd care to indulge me with your own lists be aware that answers like French Maid, Slutty Nurse, or non-English speaking Pool Boy Hunk don’t apply. Sorry MA.
11 comments:
this is like MASH!
1. Master Cabinetmaker
2. Inventor/mad scientist
3. Professor (something practical like economics or engineering--not English)
4. Genius Musician (must be successful and totally devoted/faithful to me)
5. Fine Artist/Painter (again, successful, devoted, etc)
**4 and 5 may not exist
I believe a milliner would be cooler than your standard hatter, but that perhaps may just be my prejudice. Either way, I'm sticking with it. With regards to your bonus round: I think a bluestocking would be a more intriguing blind date than a contemporary dancer. I demurely suggest you reconsider your final list. As for my own list, in no particular order:
1. Glassblower
2. Linguistics Professor
3. American Sign Language Interpreter/ Landscape Architect (The ASL would only be something he did on the side, because he has a deaf brother and believes in the power of helping others communicate—he would make his living as a Landscape Architect.)
4. Stay at Home Dad
5. Owner of his own business (his business can be anything as long as he’s passionate about it, and it’s not “importing & exporting.”)
L -
Master Cabinetmaker? Good luck with that one. I think "Mad" Scientist falls under the invalid "French" Maid category of answers. Is #3 a Freudian association?
V -
Glassblower seems like an interesting answer but I have no idea why. I like ASL/Landscape Architect minus the Landscape Architect bit. What do you have against import/exporters? They play a critically important role in the global economy.
i didn't think my list would be critiqued! (and yes, 3 is a little creepy). but while we're at it, have fun with your contemporary dancer. they're usually a laugh a minute.
These guys:
1. Vegan Fine Dining Chef
2. Collagist
3. Film Archivist
4. Font Designer
5. Stormy, Spanish heir/ surfer/ acoustic guitar strummer
K -
I'm guessing those answers weren't off the top of your head :)
i guess if i was on a blind date (oh the horror!) and blindfolded (terrible). I would be very lucky to be with a person that had a career i found even remotely interesting.
oh. re-reading this i understand I wouldn't actually be blindfolded on the date. that's better.
by the way, it's Naughty Nurse ... not slutty nurse.
get it right ;)
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